further on sex and disability

I realize I should give an example friend of mine who is amputated at the waist
what have gone through life as a virgin except for a very warm loving woman with an open mind
well he did not have anything below the waist he and his lover worked out how he could satisfy her with is his lips and tongue and fingers and she found areas on his body that she could sexually stimulate though almost everyone who saw them could not believe they were girlfriend and boyfriend my point is as I said the disabled even if all you have is just one small spot on your body that you can feel or move to have the same desire to please a lover as we all do to keep your mind open and lose your Victorian attitude about disability and sexuality I find it very annoying when someone sees me in my wheelchair assumes I cannot walk at all [I can walk a small amount] and then on finding out that I've been married for over 25 years freaks right out and often what comes out of their mouths is how can you please your wife as a husband should you know it's not something that is ever bothered us and she seemed quite happy so open your mind and realize we have the same needs and wants as the able-bodied you all have a good day grizzly